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Mindfulness in children with diabetes

6/28/2016

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​Unlike common illnesses of childhood that come and go, Type 1 diabetes is permanent. When children realise this it is natural for them to feel scared and upset, longing for the past when all was normal. Everyone has different ways of coping with setbacks and children are more likely to mirror the way their parents cope. It is really important that parents are mindful of their own emotional response to the diagnosis. Mindfulness can be helpful to manage the shock of the way your life and your child’s life has changed by giving them space patiently to express their feelings whatever they are. Sometimes they may not be able to articulate how they feel so help them by encouraging much love and kindness without judging their experience.
 
Human nature is such that we often blame ourselves, diabetes may be seen as a punishment for something and children will go through similar if not the same emotions. 
 
It is essentially a loss of an old way of living to adapting to a new way. A period of grief and mourning is natural. This process is absolutely necessary for a healthy transition to a new way of life so healing can take place from within. The healing period can vary from child to child and will depend on the level of support that is available. Bearing this in mind, patient parenting is needed.

Some children with Type 1 diabetes may not be ready to accept their difficulties, obvious signs would be preferring not to talk about them or play them down. Everyone finds their coping mechanism but also be aware when a child seems to be coping very well as they could be harbouring their true feelings.
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Often children (especially older) may find it easier to talk to someone outside their immediate family perhaps an aunt or friend. Be mindful of this. A useful tool to help express difficult emotion is to ask your child to keep a daily journal specifically focussing what was particularly difficult about the day balanced with any positive aspects. This can help to identify patterns of negative emotions and get to the root so you can help them deal with them and it ensures an open dialogue even if it is not verbal
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Tips for older children with diabetes
 
  • Anyone living with a chronic condition including diabetes deserves respect. Be mindful and respectful to give it and expect it too.
  • Acceptance is a key skill of mindfulness as it allows you to live in the moment and make the most of your life. Private and public acknowledgement that it’s difficult but you have the strength to handle it will help you feel more in control.
  • Make friends with your diabetes, it is a part of you not an enemy. Embrace the change to avoid a toxic relationship with it.
  • If it helps, think of your diabetes as a difficult friend that you care about – sometimes they are easy to get on with other time it’s annoying. You will cope really well at times and there will be times when you don't cope as well. Be kind to yourself, you are doing your best and you are an amazing person.
 
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How to Use Mindfulness to Help with Negative Emotions

6/14/2016

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​Life can be a roller-coaster of emotions, it’s not anyone’s fault. it’s just the way life is. There are often moments that are overwhelming and difficult to endure which can feel scary. Sometimes, negative emotions surface out of the blue for no obvious reason leaving us feeling angry, anxious, stressed out, sad or even embarrassed.
 
When a negative emotion rears its head, its very normal to avoid facing it by distracting ourselves with activities like food or drink or something stronger.
Sadly life is such that we all face hardship but the intensity of emotional pain for each one of us can vary from small setbacks like feeling excluded, to intense grief of a significant loss.
 
The problem is, the more we try to avoid emotional pain the more likely we are to experience it because we are unable to develop the skills needed to cope. By not accepting suffering we give negative emotions permission to control us because no matter how hard we try to escape them, emotions have a way of reappearing possibly in the form of panic attacks, depression or by engaging in unhealthy behaviours like substance abuse, eating disorders, pathological gambling, internet addiction, excessive worry or over-exercising to name a few.
 
Mindfulness can be your greatest teacher to help you face suffering and accept it as part of the human experience. It gives you the opportunity to step back and understand that emotions are temporary. The more you face up to uncomfortable feelings, the less intense the emotional experience. In the long run you learn to cope with experiencing pain while it also massively enhances happier moments, a paradox we must all understand.
 
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RAIN - 4 Steps to Manage Negative Emotions
 Here is a very well known mindfulness practice called RAIN (an acronym for the four steps of the process), it can be used in any situation or place. It directs your attention in a clear, systematic way that cuts through confusion and stress.
 R – Recognise. 
 You can do this by simply asking yourself: “What is happening inside me right now?” Keep an open kind mind and listen to what you are feeling. Name the emotion if you can.
 A – Accept. 
 Allow the thoughts, emotions, feelings or sensations that may feel unpleasant to just be. This emotion is present in the here and now at this very moment.  Just “Let it be”.
 I – Investigate.
 Pause and simply ask yourself  
“Where am I feeling this emotion in my body?”
“What thoughts am I thinking? “
“What experience led to this feeling?”
“What does this feeling want from me?”
 N – Non-identification. 
 This means maintaining a sense of who you are by simply observing the emotions. Emotions are temporary feelings that will pass, watching them come and go like thoughts can help you regain control. Imagine you are like a mountain, in the midst of a storm it remains still. Similarly during a difficult time, know that the feelings will pass and there is always a part of you that remains still and untouched by it.  Have the attitude “sadness is weighing me down at the moment but it will soon melt away”.  “Anger is rising up in me like a furnace but at some point it will start to settle and cool down.”   Non -identification is a powerful step that disentangles you from the negative emotions replacing it with inner peace and awareness.
 
R.A.I.N. and related practices of spacious awareness are fundamental to mental health, and always worth doing in their own right.  Sometimes you may find that one step is enough to help you manage the negative emotions but you may need to go through all four steps of the process which is recommended during challenging times.
 
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Mindful Eating – Getting Started

5/17/2016

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Living with any chronic condition including diabetes can be physically and emotionally overwhelming. When difficult emotions arise it’s perfectly normal to distract ourselves through work, exercising, binge eating, drinking or anything that comforts and avoids having to face the emotions. This pattern is quite common among diabetes patients sadly directly impacting their blood sugar levels.
 
While avoiding uncomfortable emotions may help to feel better in the short-term, such strategies just push negative feelings further into the psyche causing detrimental effects in the long run. This is because negative thoughts or feelings block you from experiencing life. For example, you may be over exercising or over working to avoid thinking about how diabetes is affecting you emotionally and physically. By doing this, not only are you robbing yourself of precious time with family and friends, you could be using some of that time for self-care to manage your diabetes. It may be that the intention to “eat well” is there, but because you are “busy,” food is eaten on the go. These are often not the wisest choices. Eating wrong foods builds up stress levels adding to the negative feelings that we are avoiding, making the whole cycle a viscous one.
 
According to ancient wisdom from Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda, the state of your emotions when you are eating is more important than the food itself. If you are feeling guilty or stressed even before you are about to eat, the negative emotions build up and get worse. On the other hand If you relish the moment by enjoying seeing, tasting, touching, and smelling each bite of food, your body has the “five-senses” experience leaving you feeling satisfied and preventing you from grabbing that bar of chocolate or another glass of wine.
 
Mindfulness is about paying attention on purpose, in the present moment in a non-judgmental way, to what are you are experiencing, including your thoughts, emotions, and physical feelings. The goal of mindfulness is not to force anything but to allow yourself space to notice your present experience, that includes what you are eating.
 
Here is a mindful eating exercise I would like to share with you to help you get started at eating mindfully. Full awareness can help you make decisions that impact your mental and physical well being positively.
 
Exercise.
 
Before you start to eat, take a moment to check in with your body and emotions. What does your your body need? How hungry are you? Do you need warm food or cold food?  Are you craving savoury or sweet food?
 
Now that you have decided what your body needs and have the prepared or bought the food, before you have your first bite take a moment to be thankful for it. This could be imagining all the people that have been involved in preparing the food or how the ingredients got here. This is very powerful in shifting gears in your mind even before you eat. Perhaps this is why every culture has a ritual to bless food before meals.

​Now, take a moment to observe the food, really engage with what you see. Do you see the colours?  How delicious does it look? Our sense of seeing heightens the experience of eating.
 
Next really engage with the smell of the food. What can you smell? Is it strong or fragrant? Does it make you feel hungry? Is your mouth watering?
 
Now take a bite and notice the texture of the food in your mouth. Can you feel any sensations on your tongue? Is warm? Spicy? Sweet? Is it chewy or slippery?
 
Now focus your attention on the taste. Let the food sit on your tongue while you really engage with the flavour and sensations. You can pretend you are a food critic, see how many accents of taste or texture you can observe.  Repeat this exercise with a few more bites to engage your senses and help you feel more in tune with your eating experience and aware of your body and emotions.

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​Being mindful is not as easy as it looks; in fact it requires practice and experience. Being mindful with diabetes can be even harder but certainly not impossible.  When we are rushing around on autopilot it can be difficult to pay attention to any experience in the present moment so stepping back from being busy to tune into the emotional and physical needs of your body is critical to manage your diabetes. It’s also very important as part of your self-care that you stop judging yourself and beating yourself up over a high or low blood sugar level but instead focus that energy to influence a positive outcome for better well being and happiness.
 
Mindfulness is not a quick fix but it could be your best friend to help you manage difficult diabetes-related emotions. Mindfulness needs to be practiced and experienced to retrain your brain to enjoy every single bit of food – this in itself can make a huge difference to your health and happiness.
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Managing Diabetes with Mindful Eating

5/3/2016

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Key to managing type 2 diabetes successfully is eating right. Making wise food choices is critical for people with diabetes to help them reduce the risk of stroke, heart disease, or other diabetes related complications.
 
A diagnosis of type 2 diabetes can be emotionally and physically overwhelming for people in addition to the worries and anxieties of daily pressures of life.
 
Mindful eating is not a new fad diet but a healthy, healing way of eating for anyone. Even more for someone who wants to lead a normal life whilst managing diabetes. It is based on the ancient Buddhist art of mindfulness that makes us aware to live in the moment. The concept is that we live in autopilot mode,often holding onto past regrets or worry about future ones. Thus we are rarely focused on what we are doing in the present. A well structured mindfulness program helps us to come off autopilot mode and develop a new mindset towards eating.

The good news is the NHS in England is now recommending this technique as studies have proven it to be effective in reducing over and binge eating, lowering weight and body mass index, helping to cope with anxiety about food and chronic eating problems such as anorexia and bulimia as well as helping to improve Type 2 diabetes.

Whether we are binge eating or following a highly restrictive diet, it is likely that we have lost track of when we are hungry or when we are full. Mindful eating heals this disconnection between our body and mind.

Mindful eating helps people with diabetes listen to their bodies to understand physical sensations of hunger and understand what the body really needs. Being aware of emotional and physical triggers of hunger can help patients understand when to stop and start eating. This can be difficult if one had lost their sense of hunger and fullness from eating large portions, comfort eating or fad diets but it is reversible by re-training the brain to connect with the body and emotions.


Our relationship with food is often a reflection of our emotional well being. Sometimes without even realising,we restrict or overeat as a coping mechanism to block negative thoughts or to distract us from dealing with them. When we have healthier ways of coping, such as mindful breathing and letting go of anxiety, we no longer need to manage our emotions through food choices. We are able to tolerate negative emotions, as uncomfortable as they may be, without pushing them away or stuffing them down with food.

 

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Here are some simple tips for mindful eating that can be used straight away whether you are diabetic or not. If you are diabetic, it may be helpful for you to get additional support from a mindful eating teacher or coach to assist in coping with any difficult emotions.

  1. Turn off the TV or smartphone. Watching TV or checking emails during a meal is classic mindless eating. . Research shows that eating in front of the TV increases food intake by 14 percent. By focusing your attention solely on eating you will be aware of how much you are eating, when you are full and it will be a nourishing experience.
  2. Sit down. Avoid eating while standing or walking. Sit ready to enjoy the meal in front of you.
  3. Eat each meal as if it is special or gourmet. Savour each bite of food slowly paying attention to the smell, taste and texture. You will eat less while still feeling satisfied.
  4. Take small bites and chew thoroughly. Completely finish one bite until your mouth is completely empty before moving on to the next.
  5. Eat with your non-dominant hand. Research shows that eating with the less dominant hand can reduce food intake by 30 percent because you have to work a little harder on the hand-mouth co-ordination, shifting your awareness to focus on your eating.
  6. Breathing space. Slow down your meal by taking a deep breath before every mouthful. This simple action can bring your mind back to the present moment.
  7. Put your fork down between bites. This simple action forces you to come off autopilot by slowing down.
  8. Eat fibre. A study showed that eating an apple before lunch can cut food consumption by 15% as fibre is filling. It also helps to regulate your blood sugar levels that will prevent binge eating.
  9. Rate your hunger or craving before you eat. Before you reach out for the chocolate bar, on a scale of 1-10 ask yourself how hungry you are and if you really NEED to eat it or can you have a healthier alternative? Keep healthy alternatives in sight, out of sight is out of mind.
  10. Plan for tomorrow. Mindless eating is very common between coming home from work and dinner, when you are tired and hungry. Have a healthy meal prepared that you can heat up or use a slow cooker to have one waiting for you to avoid mindless grazing on junk.
  11. Cook Mindfully. Be present during the process of cooking and really try to enjoy it rather than rushing. Breathe in the aromas, feel the vegetables as you chop them, stir mindfully. It can be very therapeutic.
  12. Be mindful when eating with others. When you eat with company it’s easy to unconsciously eat at their pace and portion size especially when chatting away. Take moments to bring your awareness to your own plate, portions and eating pace.
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    Mita Mistry  Mindfulness Coach, Acupuncturist, Columnistand expert in holistic care of chronic diseases based in Leamington Spa, UK. 

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